A little advice please... :(

[amunhra]

I think Pat was very unfair to let his feelings for you be known to your LB...

I thought that too today I've had too much time to think about this

But LB asked for honesty

I don't want to think I'm going to need to start pointing fingers As in start pointing a finger at Pat for actually saying something that hurt my LB

[amunhra]

I think Pat was very unfair to let his feelings for you be known to your LB...

I'm going to post the reply to LB from Pat. I'm not invading privacy, I've been given access to this info from my love. Can you tell me how you'd react to an email like this?

To answer your question, I seriously don't think you have much to worry about from me, though it would be a lie to say that I didn't have feelings towards Julie. On this note however,
I respect her very much and am not the kind of guy to interfere with what you two obviously have that I don't.

All she ever talks about is you, she spends all her time in her room, (assumingly talking to you) and it's clear to me that I had best not get involved.

Look, it may be upsetting towards you to learn this, but I respect you as well and I'm not trying to steal her away from you. Whatever my feelings they matter not, I doubt Julie will ever know. I don't plan on telling her. Which leads me to ask why you ask? Is there something more going on that I know not about? How did I get involved in this in the first place?

Look, I have had feelings for Julie for a long time, I don't see why now would make any difference. I just try and be there for her and be her friend and then I close my door and leave it alone, like I've always done. How could I ever come between you two anyway?

Well, I hope this answers your question, I gave you my honesty, which is just about all I have left to my name these days, I hope this doesn't worsen your situation.

[depressed goth]

Hitman=Dear Diary

[Hitman]

in the immortal words of Jules Winnfield:

If my answers frighten you then you should cease asking scary questions...

If your LB was going to ask about stuff like he did, then he should have been prepared to not like what was revealed.

Why did LB ask Pat about that anyway?
Did he already suspect something?

[Hitman]

Hitman=Dear Diary

[gr_cunt_eg]

I was thinking, Dolly Doctor.

[Hitman]

[amunhra]

First I want to say thanks I really appreciate you giving me your advice. I'm unfortunately stuck with people I know having biased opinions on the subject. So getting advice from someone that isn't helps.

LB did suspect that Pat had feelings for me. He started asking me about it a while ago, from the emails that I would get from Pat. Though these emails were just friendly, they did get more frequent. I do think that, in part, this is why he started getting suspicious as Pat rarely emailed me before. Though, he(Pat) had other people to email before... since things have turned out badly for him currently, he's had a lot less friends to chat with.

LB's question was just this:

On a more serious note, I would like to thankyou for being Julie's only real friend in real life right now. Thanks Pat. It's nice to see that at least some people treat her well (you and her sis mostly). It sucks that most people acted like assholes towards her when she hasn't done anything wrong. Makes me feel helpless. It's one of the hardest things about an online relationship.

Which brings me to my next point, we're both going through shit in our lives right now, and we've been having a bit of trouble with our relationship. It sucks. Anyway, I was wondering if you can sort something out for me. I'd like to get everything resolved and one of these things involves you.

Do you have any feelings whatsoever towards Julie that isn't just friendship? Please be honest.

I would have omitted some of this stuff but I thought it pertained to the question. On both accounts, your questions and his.

[Hitman]

Well, there you go. He asked for honesty...

Um, why does Pat email you when you LIVE with him?

[amunhra]

All she ever talks about is you, she spends all her time in her room

That is seriously all I ever do. I do it with the door closed and ask to not be bothered. Email is easier to speak to me than any normal way of communication. The only time I speak to him one-on-one is when I leave my room to go make dinner or when he picks me up/drops me off at work.

Which has only been recently as I was threatened bodily harm from his Ex-GF (also my ex-best friend) and her new BF.